Blame

Blaming....pointing finger to others ....... 'Lai' (cantonese) ..... is our culture that have also indirectly (or directly) teaching our younger generations. U dont believe that ??? See .......

CCTV focusing on a lady's journalist thigh in an assembly meeting ......
'Lai' -> the journalist shouldn't wear too 'sexy' ?!?!?!?

Women gotten themself raped ....
'Lai' -> must be wearing 'too little' & exposing 'too much' .....

Being snatched ...
'Lai' -> shouldn't walk alone, shouldn't carry handbag, not enough security force....

Certain group of ppl not up to expected par level....
'Lai' -> not being taken care of (discriminate) ....

Town council who built mansion without permit ....
'Lai' -> archirtect fault ?! feng shui ?! got a big family to support ..??

Will you accept your children's "reasons" this way ....

Why you steal money?
You didn't give me enough $$; i need hp, new clothes, social....

Why you peep your friend's sister showering?
Who ask her to wear too 'sexy'?? Not my fault ...

Aren't you suppose to do your study instead of watching TV?
You shouldn't have TV here in the first place ...

(cantonese) "lai de jiau lai" -> if you can blame, blame !!!